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Beware the Withholder

A Poem

Wendy Cohan
1 min readDec 3, 2021
Photo by Chris Reyem on Unsplash

Withholding is a difficult pattern to live with,
And apparently, to break.
I don’t know where it comes from.
Imitation, perhaps? Protection, more likely.
It’s difficult to continue to shower love upon
The withholder, who is perpetually wearing
A Teflon raincoat and holding an umbrella.
Every ounce of love falls to the ground,
Unabsorbed, often unappreciated,
Certainly, unreturned.
If we come from love and return to love,
We are also here to love and be loved,
And so, withholding makes no sense.
It is the mark of a coward with a capital “C”.
Although, once, I felt compassion.
Everyone deserves to love and be loved.
Now, after so long, the withholder’s
Stance, his (or her) lack of action,
Appears stubbornly irrational,
His shield pathetically transparent.
The Emperor wears no clothes.
Like the withholder,
I now reject every attempt …
To withhold.
I turn and embrace the rain.

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Wendy Cohan
Wendy Cohan

Written by Wendy Cohan

Author of character-driven women's fiction, short stories, and essays. Her contemporary romance, The Renaissance Sisters, debuted May 23, 2023.

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