I don't think I even used the word guilt once in my article. I'm talking about stepping up. When you see bad behavior, call it out. "Hey dude, that's really not cool to talk about women that way," or, "Bro, I think you owe that woman an apology." I also think that women have become so jaded that we don't even expect men to behave decently anymore. But I come from an older generation, and I still want to try. I recently asked a guy I'd been talking to to walk me to my car, not because I was into him, but because it wasn't a great part of town and I didn't want to get into a bad situation. He seemed surprised that I would ask, but gladly did as I asked., and I got to my car safely and thanked him. But I sincerely doubt if he would have offered. Bottom line, I think the way men and women relate to each other in our culture needs some work. And worldwide, women have it much worse. Thanks for reading my article, and for your response.